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So many of you replied to my newsletter last week, "Rejection and an Antidote" and shared your stories and reflections. First of all, thank you so much for writing me and connecting. It means a lot to me. Second, this really does make it super clear how we all struggle with moments of rejection. We are not alone in this no matter how things may appear on the outside or on social media. Knowing this, I just want to send out a little extra love to you all and bow softly to your resilience, perseverance and also to your own unique magic and beauty. One of you told me about how acts of service have helped when your self regard felt low after rejection. From my experience, helping really can bolster our sense of purpose and meaning and fill us with warm, fuzzy feelings. I actually think this is just as important as consciously uplifting our internal self regard through practices like the one in my last newsletter. Ultimately, they are two sides of the same circle and you just get on at whatever point feels most accessible to you. In some instances, focusing on uplifting yourself actually gives you the energy, motivation and self-belief to put yourself and your gifts out there in the world and be of service. Other times, just diving into an act of service gets you out of a downward thought spiral and offers an opportunity to feel connected to your fellows which is often what gets shaken in moments of rejection. Both are really wonderful and they can lead into each other. So if this resonates with you right now, I suggest you make in a list in your journal of ways in which you can or already are helping those around you in both big and small ways. Many of us will just think of volunteering or donating money first and while that is wonderful, it can be logistically complicated depending on your resources and life situation. So I encourage you to expand you idea of service when journalling your list. Here are some prompts to get you started:
Beyond this list, we can also endeavor to be observant and open to any opportunities to help people, plants, and animals that may present themselves. Always check in with your intuition to make sure it is aligned before saying yes. Don't feel like you have to say yes to everything in order to be "good." You will know in your heart when helping is in the highest good of all. While it may be somewhat inconvenient or even challenging, it should not feel like a guilt-ridden obligation or run you ragged. It should feel like a sparkling opportunity to reach out to your fellows in mutual care and consideration. Reaching out to someone or even an organization to offer help does open you up to the possibility of rejection. Now this in no way means you shouldn't try. Just remember if you are feeling very fragile, do some things to bolster your self regard and soothe as needed before and after reaching out. On a closing note, it felt resonant to share the "Generosity" card from my Spirit Kittens Oracle Deck, part of my Wander Kittens Oracle Deck Set. Giving and receiving help connects us all. Know that even by receiving help you may actually be helping the person who is helping you. There is beautiful reciprocity at play here. May we all find ways to be more generous with ourselves and those around us. Much love and magic your way, Nicole P.S. Your Spirit Cats 2026 Calendar pre-orders will mostly be shipping out next week. A few will go out this week. The calendars have arrived and look amazing! I am just waiting on the bulk of the shipping boxes as the boxes I normally use got discontinued so I had to find a new source. P.P.S. My Autumn Collection of art prints is available through the end of October unless they sell out sooner. Some of the prints have already sold out but there are a few lovely fall-vibed ones left for you. "Friendship" Art Print from my Autumn Collection ~ only 2 left "Friendly Unknown" Art Print from my Autumn Collection ~ only 1 left "Catalyst" Art Print from my Autumn Collection ~ only 3 left
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